Talk goncharenko centre 2025-3-30: Relationships: family, dating, friends, work: How to understand people and how to make the best decisions

Talk goncharenko centre 2025-3-30: Relationships: family, dating, friends, work: How to understand people and how to make the best decisions: Overview

Time frame:

16:30: Introduction

16:32: Part 1

17:10: End of part 1: Tea + break + talk about the first part or other topics

17:30: Part 2

18:10: End of part 2: Tea + break + talk about everything or other topics

18:30: End...

For those who want to attend: Please think about problems you had with friends, family, in dating, in marriage and think about what you felt/thought caused the problems. I will tell about some of the types of issues that I had in my life with family, friends, in dating and you can see whether your problems are similar, and perhaps what you can do in such situations from now on.
Plan: I and Vlad will do a group test of 2 methods to let attendees handle 2 situations so we can all see how they work and to compare them.
Vlad will translate where needed to help. This is meant as a help, not to translate everything. If something is not clear, raise your hand or ask! We can change how we organise this depending on feedback and proficiency level of attendees.

Topics:

1 Essentials:

know and understand yourself!
know and understand others
in life: List of what is important for women in life + input from the women attending: what is important for you?
In life: List of what is important for men in life + input from the men attending: what is important for you?

1.1 Your input on (1) what is important for you in others, and (2) are you aware enough of what you want/need? + What is it that friends or a potential wife/husband need to know?

2 Types of personalities

2.1 Your input on what is important in the personality of friends or of a prospective partner?

3 Types of relationships: family, friends, dating/marriage, work, etc.

4 Dating, marriage:

feedback is important, such as described in Gary Chapman's book "5 love languages"
what do you need to have in common?
what is love?
what else is important in relationships, dating, marriage

4.1 Your input on issues in dating, marriage: tell your views

5 Share your experiences with problems with people, in dating, or at work, or with friends?

5.1 Workgroup on using 2 methods to deal with situations

6 Analysis of 2 methods: 'just letting go' and 'non-violent discussions' (Rosenberg)/li>

7 Some experiences, showing how people behave and get influenced and how I and an acquaintance dealt with those situations

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