QL1-the-past: Questions about looking back to the past/having regrets/bad experiences in life. Write down your answers, can be in English or any other language, you don't need to share anything of this, it is for yourself:
1. What made you upset about some situation in the past?
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2. Can you change something in that situation right now?
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3. How do you feel about this situation at the moment? Does it affect you when looking back?
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4. What can you do right now about changing this feeling?
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QL2-problems: Questions about worrying, problems: Write down your answers, can be in English or any other language, you don't need to share anything of this, it is for yourself:
1. Do you worry about something, perhaps caused by a 'problem'? What is that worry or problem?
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2. Could you make a change in the situation that will cause you to stop worrying?
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3. How do you feel about the situation right now?
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4. Could you stop the feeling of worrying? Could you stop this feeling without effort/without taking any action?
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5. Now check your points on whether any change is practical.
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